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We, humans, go through several unpleasant experiences and many of them are due to attachments.
You could get attached to an experience or a means to an experience.
Several times, you are aware of the possibility of attachment and hence, you may avoid opening up to new possibilities.
Perhaps opening up the past has been a painful experience for you.
However, it is not necessarily because of the attachment, but it is certainly your erroneous association of opening up with attachment, which may be responsible for your need to hold yourself back.
You are here for amazing experiences.
Look at the possibility of opening up to various experiences of life.
Nothing is permanent. Open up, go through and complete yourself with the experiences which are being offered to you.
Open up to relationships, people, objects, comforts, emotions and remember everything is transient. The more you resist, the more they are likely to persist.
All that you are resisting is probably being offered to you in different ways and means.
Open up. Allow yourself the experience. Grow through the experience, move on and raise your consciousness.